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Part two signs of deceit, the four tell tale signs of deceit signed for after the conversation Wolf.

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I'm glad that's over with.

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Watch and listen carefully, because after the conversation, notice if the subject becomes happy that

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the conversation has changed.

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Does he appear more relaxed?

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He may even offer a smile or a nervous laugh.

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Notice this posture.

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Does he become less defensive, more at ease?

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The giveaway here is how fast and dramatically his mood changes, indicating his discomfort with the

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previous subject matter.

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So you can test to see how quick he is to want to change the subject, because if he's been accused

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of something downright awful and he is innocent, he is going to assert that the accusation is unfair

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and insist that the topic be explained further or either now or at some future date.

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Remember, the guilty person wants the subject change as quickly as possible in the conversation to

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end.

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The innocent person always wants a further exchange of information and want the conversation to continue

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to the point of clarity for both of you.

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Now, in non-criminal situations where there's a personal element, you can turn up the heat a bit by

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forcing the conversation to an uncomfortable end.

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For instance, let's say you think your mother in law may have hired a private investigator to follow

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you around.

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I know a real hypothetical.

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First, you tell her something that you both know to be true.

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I know you're not very fond of me and you objected to the wedding right from the beginning.

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But this time, you've gone too far.

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Next, you state your assumption, I know all about the investigation.

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Why did you think that that was necessary?

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And now the magic phrase, you know what, I'm just too upset to talk about this.

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Now, if she becomes quiet, she's probably guilty.

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Probably if she has no idea what you're talking about, you can be sure that she doesn't care that you're

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becoming upset and don't want to talk about it because you have no reason to be upset.

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The guilty person will honor your request because he or she doesn't want to anger you further.

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And an innocent person will be mad at you for accusing them of something that they haven't done and

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will want to discuss it further.