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Part one, stealth lie detection tactics for detecting deceit and gathering information tactics to the

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ultimate alibi buster.

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Have you ever wanted to hook someone up to a lie detector test to see if he was lying to you?

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Well, with this tactic, you can instantly find out if his story checks out or if his alibi is nothing

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but a pack of lies and all by asking a few simple questions.

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Let's say a woman suspected that her boyfriend was not at the local movies with his brother, like you

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said he was, but actually went out to the city with a group of friends simply by asking him if he did

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indeed go to the movies would only prompt.

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Yes, this is, of course, because if he was there, he would say yes.

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And if he wasn't, he would also likely stick to his story.

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By using this technique, she simply asks two questions to confirm the facts and then introduces a made

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up fact.

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For instance, she would say, what movie did you see?

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And then perhaps or what time did it let out?

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And then she introduces her own, quote unquote, fact and would say something such as, oh, I heard

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the traffic was backed up for an hour because of a water main break at that hour.

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Now, all she has to do is sit back and wait for his response.

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This is because her boyfriend is faced with a conundrum.

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If he wasn't at the movies, he doesn't know whether to acknowledge that there was a water main break

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because there might have been one or they might not have been one.

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And if he says that there wasn't and there was, then she'll know that he really wasn't there.

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But regardless of his answer, he will do the one thing that every single person when confronted with

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this technique will do, and that is hesitate deciding how to answer.

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Remember, had he been at the theater, he would instantly have said there was no water main break.

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What are you talking about?

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But the liar isn't sure because he wasn't there and so is going to hesitate in his answer.

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But in doing so, give himself away.

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On top of that, he'll likely answer wrongly by agreeing to what you said because he doesn't know that

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you're making it up.

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Let's review a you start by asking two confirming questions and then introduce your own detail again.

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It has to be something that's not true.

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If you merely confirm something that's actually true, you haven't learned anything new.

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Second, it must sound reasonable, otherwise the person you're questioning might think that it's just

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the joke you want him to answer seriously.

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And finally, your assertion has to be something that would directly affect this person.

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So he would have firsthand knowledge of this information if he hesitates, changes his subjects or gives

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a wrong answer to your question, then you know you're not getting the truth.

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Now, you can turn up the heat with this technique a little bit more by adding a tactic called the facts

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domino the facts domino means that during the conversation you simply ask in a general way questions

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pertaining to your suspicion that force the person to continue to recall more and more information.

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If he's speaking the truth, they don't answer you quickly and effortlessly.

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But if he's lying, he's going to take a while because he's trying to mentally rehearse his answers.

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For example, you would ask questions that give an objective, not a subjective response.

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For instance, if you think an employee was at home when he said he would really be away visiting a

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sick mother, you wouldn't ask them how he enjoyed the weather in Florida because people generally take

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longer to respond to these types of questions.

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Instead, ask him something such as, did you rent the car and then casually ask more questions in the

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same vein or what kind of car did rent?

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Hey, did you get a cool color?

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And so on and so on.

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Generally, the only way someone would want to change the subject would be if he's uncomfortable with

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the questions.

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If you're asking simple, innocuous questions, you should expect that he would want to extend the conversation

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and not end it.

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Most people would love to go on endlessly about the new restaurant they went to, the trip they took

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or the job that they turned down.

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Unless, of course, they're lying and you keep asking questions and then it becomes quite annoying

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and frustrating for them.

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And they're going to look to change the subject as fast as they can.
